Keeping Your Baby

Is one of the most important decisions that you will ever make. The fate of another life is in your hands.

Even though I had my children purposely later in life to get married and complete my education, I was still faced with this decision over 14 years ago. I was not feeling well lately, so I decided to go to the doctor. They confirmed that I was expecting. This was such a surprise, and what I considered for a moment to be a huge disappointment. As I began to ask my doctor questions about my options, she told me that I only had a small window of time to decide if I was going to continue the pregnancy or terminate it. I didn’t inform my husband at the time, since I wasn’t sure. I prayed about it and felt a peace. This was another gift from God, and I would nurture and cherish it.

It has been over 14 years since my daughter was born, and I thank God every day that she is in my life. I know that I made the right decision. Her being a special needs child makes me cherish her even more. She adds such a rich dimension to my life that I couldn’t get any other way. Sure, it has been challenging, but totally worth it. That is my encouragement to you. Even though it may seem difficult, and you may not have all the answers yet, just know that the journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step.